A very common parent question we hear at Rivendell is, “How do you handle conflicts with students? What is your strategy for working through behavioral issues?” Fortunately, Rivendell School takes a proactive approach of Love and Logic that helps prevent conflicts from occurring or escalating.
Love and Logic is a philosophy that encourages students to be advocates for themselves and to understand that the choices they make affect others. Love and Logic allows teachers the opportunity to use common language to help kids become problem solvers.
4 Basic Principles of the Love and Logic Approach that Rivendell Staff uses:
Empathy First
Teachers and staff use empathy to connect with students, ensuring they feel understood and respected before addressing behavior issues. This builds trust and reduces defensiveness.
Natural Consequences
Instead of imposing arbitrary punishments, students experience the natural or logical consequences of their actions. This helps them learn from mistakes in a meaningful way.
Shared Control
Teachers share control by giving students choices within set boundaries. This fosters a sense of independence and encourages decision-making.
Problem-Solving Skills
Children are encouraged to solve their own problems, with adult guidance when necessary. This helps them build resilience and critical thinking skills.
Love and Logic cultivates a positive classroom environment and helps build relationships. Students are happiest when they are provided with support and are listened to. We see each and every conflict as an opportunity to learn and grow!